Friendship (Thought # 5)

I haven't written in FOREVER, so I'm really sorry X(

So, a thought today... the lamest sounding topic ever, but sincerely one of the best.
Friendship. There's so many different types and levels of friendships. There are some friends you truly love, with whom you share everything (or almost everything), even your deepest secrets. Not everyone has such a close friend, but most people find them eventually.

The best friend I have is back where I used to live, and I miss her like Hell... I feel really torn apart without her. I told her everything (almost :P), and still do when I can call her (which is about once a month :( ) and she told me everything. We were like twins, only we never fought. So, not everybody gets the chance to meet someone that special. I'm glad I did.

But here comes the analysis: there's a different type of friendship for everyone... every person has a different relationship to you, because we all appeal to one another differently. That is why the dimension of relationships is so complex and varied. It's like an intricate web of differently shaped fibers.

Even love in itself is different. Love to a mother is different from the love to a father, as it is different to a sister, brother, lover, friend. It is undescribable to men, yet so precise at the same time. It is just one of those things to which you can not give words, and maybe it is better off this way. It is the silence of unsaid things that makes them more beautiful, and sometimes the crudity of words only waste away the concept. That is why the words "I love you" don't mean as much to me as they should. They are either lies, or profound understatements, therefore I don't give them the value most people (actually, most girls) do.

In fact, the words "please be my friend" mean much more to me. "I love you" is so precise, so... crude. It does not have the deep meaning so many people give it. Whereas "please be my friend" opens up so many doors, so many moments together, so many memories just waiting to be created. It has a world of expectations, a future in front of it. Friendship is the diversity and the infinity of memorable times, of times spent with a loved one. That is my conclusion.


Antemortem ♥